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only constant contact with the public, but as a          catch the breath he needed, and then speak.
     hearings officer, the requisite ability to convey        He went on through his time in the club to

     decisions and explain the reasoning for his              be a great speaker and leader, but with his
     ruling—and for that he stood in front of the club        increased speaking, etc., his hearings work
     of 20 plus members that Friday afternoon. He             began to interfere with the club meetings. His
     looked calm, confident, and the first thing he           boss met me one morning at the local coffee

     did was reach into the space beneath the lectern         shop and expressed his thanks for training
     and remove a paper bag, hold it up to his lips and       him so well, and as he continued to advance in
     begin breathing in and out. We sat stunned for           the department, and use those skills that the
     just a brief minute, watching the bag inflate and        Toastmaster program could teach him. What

     deflate. I begin to think, “what a brilliant way         a wonderful life!
     of introducing himself as a ‘newbie’ by showing              That example of the change wrought
     us all how we felt at our first public speech in         through our program is just one of many
     Toastmasters!” He then went on to present a              positive attributes I have seen over the years.

     grand introduction to his life and reason for            There have been great and creative stories,
     being there, wowing his listeners who received           impassioned pleas for community action,
     it with great applause.                                  exemplars of a change or impact upon their
         Later, after the meeting concluded with              well-being. There have been “Jingling Johnny’s,”

     him receiving his ICE BREAKER ribbon, he                 “Fig Leaves,” “Windmills,” “The Ring Twister”
     confessed the truth. It was not a well thought           and other such observed behaviors introduced
     out and cleaver intro, but a genuine fear and            at the first speech, but by the third or fourth
     need for him to go on to speak—to calm down,             mere memories as they had learned and




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