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been a literal pause
      button for many of

      us and that it’s okay
      not to know what’s
      coming next. I’m
      still working on how

      to deal with what’s
      coming next.
          Bottom line: Even
      for those of us who

      claim to be flexible, adapting
      to change during enormous
      social and emotional upheaval
      is challenging, to say the least. In my

      most recent prepared speech, I acknowledged that  Trying to add more chores to that list results
      there is no easy way to get ready to reenter the  in diminishing returns and in turn creates
      workforce. Creating a mentality that states, “I’m  increased resentment.
      ready to meet the challenges of tackling a new            While each person adapts to change

      job” is a great start. In order to get to that place,  differently, the common denominator for most
      however, one must also be willing to take small  of us is finding our comfort level in which we’re
      steps to meet greater challenges.                      able to change at all. Whatever your goals are,
          It’s on those days where I’ve hit the proverbial  make sure that they align with who you are at

      wall that I’m reminded that it’s okay to falter,  that moment and whether or not they allow you
      too, in order to pick yourself up the next day  to make a well-reasoned decision on what you
      and say, “Here are the goals I’ll set for myself.”  want to accomplish.
      The soundest advice I’ve been given during this           Change can be difficult, but allowing

      period came from my family, namely, plan no  yourself to be honest about that difficulty can
      more than three objectives that you’ll finish  make all the difference in the world.
      during the day. For the most part, this holds
      true as you can only do so much in one day.




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