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A New Perspective





 Emilie Taylor, DTM - Immediate Past District Director





      time mulling over certain decisions. I would             some silly thing. If you were deputized, you

      be satisfied to let them go. Decisions are made          could write them a ticket. It really comes down
      because of the need and circumstances. A                 to being in command of your reactions, self-
      decision is never made in isolation. Self-judging        talk, self-analysis, and self-opinion.  Practice
      as to whether decisions were bad or good is a            taking command of your reactions. Make your

      futile experiment in my opinion. Time and                actions well intended instead of programed
      distance make us second guess ourselves. Is that         auto responses. See what a difference it makes.
      helpful?  I don’t think so.                                  I will leave you with this wonderful quote
         Are we able to see clearly or is our vision           from the movie adaptation of The Curious Case

      marred by how we feel? Perspectives change our           of Benjamin Button: “It’s never too late to become
      vision of interpreting what we see.                      who you want to be. I hope you live a life that
         When you are driving your car, do you put             you’re proud of. And if you find that you’re
      your attention to what is going on behind you?           not, I hope you have the strength to start over.”

      Maybe at a stop light it is ok.  Most of the time, it    I hope you go and get a fresh perspective. . .
      is better to have your attention focused on what             Keep looking for a different angle, to see
      is happening in front of you.  If your attention         yourself, your role, your activities from a fresh
      is focused on what is going on behind you then           perspective! See you next month with my new

      you may lose your way or end up in the ditch or          column Beyond Toastmasters. You will have
      head on with a logging truck. You cannot control         to wait and see what it’s all about.
      what the driver does behind you, in front of you,
      or on either side. You can control your reactions            Back to you, fellow Toastmasters!

      to your surroundings. You can control whether
      you get upset if someone cuts you off or does






















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