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      of Redemption.” At least, this last one is my hope.  outside in what feels like this never-ending storm
          Ringing in 2021 felt. . .odd, for lack of  and attempt to thrive?
      a better phrase. Leading up to that night. I               Right about here is where the writer’s block

      remember having many conversations with  really kicked in—because, if I’m being completely
      friends that went not surprisingly—though still  honest, I have absolutely no idea.
      disappointingly—similar:                                   Time to pop open that umbrella. After a quick
          “Any fun plans for New Years?” I would ask  Google search, I found that the vast majority of

      unenthusiastically. I received a dozen different  umbrellas are made with an 8-pronged sectional
      and creative ways of saying “No.” Each preceded  design for optimum rain repellation. It seemed
      by, or followed with, a heavy sigh.                    fitting, then, to come up with 8 strategies to try
          Any other year on New Years Eve I would have  and start this New Year off right (or, right-er,

      plans. I’m talking dressed up, hair done, heels on,  whatever that means). Then I realized that 8 is a
      lipstick-wearing plans. I’d be getting ready with  LOT, so I settled on 4. Look, the storm is heavy
      friends at the house around 9, throwing back a  for us all, but my hope is that we can all hang
      few homemade cocktails before 10, standing in  onto our umbrellas and ride it out. Together.

      the frigid cold to get into a swanky party by 11,          So here are 4 things that are helping me enter
      and hoping to have that lipstick smeared by a  this new year with a little less stress. They’re not
      cute stranger at midnight. This year? I worked  the end-all-be-all, they may not rouse you to
      the “dinner rush” as those of us in delivery food  achieve enlightenment, but they’re a start. They

      call the hours of 4-8:30pm and was asleep by  work for me, and I hope they connect with you,
      11:15. No dress, hair, heels, makeup, party, and  too.
      certainly no kiss. Just me, my dog, and a hope to
      wake up the next day feeling. . .different.                            Permission to Feel

          But I didn’t.                                          If I’ve learned anything weathering serious
          And I doubt most of you did, either.               storms in my life, mainly through athletics, it’s
          That’s likely because all of those facts listed  this—there’s no shame in crying when you’re
      above from the dumpster fire that was 2020 still  upset about something, but being upset about

      existed on New Year’s Day—and a few of them  something still doesn’t change it’s outcome.
      got even worse in the week to follow! It feels as  Read that again. I’ve had countless sport-related
      if 2021 so far has said “challenge accepted” to  injuries, and I’ve cried about every single one
      2020 being the literal WORST.YEAR.EVER.  of them. Two days ago I found out I’m going to

      So, what now my fellow Toastmasters? How do  need another surgery on my shoulder—my 3rd
      we even begin to get inspired and excited about  in 18 months. Devastated doesn’t even put it into
      a new year when there is so much unrest and  words. I cried. A lot. When there were no tears
      uncertainty in all of our lives? How do we walk  left (though rest assured they will come back at




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